Loren in conversation with Berns Galloway

Gay Men Over 50: Is Comfort Keeping You From Becoming Who You Really Are?

September 24, 2026•1 min read
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Have you become comfortable—or have you become yourself?

For gay men over 50, the second half of life can bring questions we may have spent decades avoiding.

Who am I now? What am I holding onto because it feels safe? How much of my life reflects what I genuinely want—and how much comes from who I learned I was supposed to be?

In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford talks with psychotherapist and Somatic Experiencing teacher Burns Galloway about inner work, authenticity, aging, identity, purpose and connection.

Inner work isn't limited to therapy. It can include spiritual practice, coaching, self-inquiry, listening to the body, questioning old beliefs and becoming more conscious about how we want to live.

Burns also challenges some familiar assumptions: Do we always need a purpose? What happens when we stop performing for other people? And can comfort itself become something that keeps us from changing?

Perhaps most importantly, they explore why meaningful change can be difficult in isolation.

The Wisdom Trust is a podcast and community for gay men over 50 who want deeper connection, meaningful friendship, honest conversation and a richer second half of life.

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Loren Crawford

Loren Crawford

Loren Crawford is a wellness coach, meditation teacher, and founder of The Wisdom Trust for Gay Men 50+. Drawing on more than two decades of experience in coaching, yoga, and personal growth, he helps men navigate the challenges and opportunities of the wisdom years with greater purpose, connection, and authenticity. Through his writing, podcast, and community, Loren explores what it means to build a meaningful life after 50—one grounded in belonging, emotional honesty, and the courage to keep becoming who we truly are.

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